As human beings, we can perceive the incoherence present when peple don’t know what they want and, even though, they look for a false safety by controlling everything around. This way, different mecanisms to transmit a different image, from the real one, to other people, are acquired and the hipocresy of preaching but not doing is justfied.
All of us can transform ourselves, it’s a decision, there is the possibility of being a different, conscious and whole version of ourselves. This requires a lot of reflection, perception, transparency and exercise of our will, aligned to the purpose of integration and peace. Let’s see some useful aspects to exercise being the example we want from the world:
Transparency: by perceiving the decision we make when we respond, we can understand how we react to transform the way we express ourselves. We can answer with the truth or not answering at all, it is always our decision (click here to read about exercising transparency)
Neutrality: we always have the option to focus on our own process, to build, to work, to nourish ourselves, then, is it necessary to dedicate our time and energy to judge or criticize, positively or nagatively? No, and the time and energy we save is welcome in our personal projects (click here to read about neutrality)
Respect: acceptance and knowledge allow us to learn to respect ourselves from the basics of the nutrition of our body, our relationship with ourselves and our relationship with the world and with others (click here to read about respect).
Coherence: we say that it is important to be coherent, but, are we coherent with what we feel, think, say and do?, remember that coherence is only achieved through integrity and self-knowledge, because the only thing we really want is to build peace from within, to achieve te experience of integration of our truth with the truth of others, aligned to the context. (click here to read about coherence)
By listening, perceiving and integrating ourselves, to everything and everyone, as social individuals, we align ourselves to the peace we all desire, and that can only be experienced in society when we feel it within and learn how to express it (click here to read about peace).