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Manifesting the Relationship we Desire

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I’ve been through several moments in my life that have contributed to a wider and more responsible perception about relationships. The life lived from the mental and emotional worlds can lead to a desconnection of integrity and personal power, what leads to experimentation from voids, created by the illusion of separation that generates individualistic people. This is the foundation for having relationships with parcial, or total, absence of transparency, acceptance, respect and coherene, starting from the relationship with one self, and that keeps going until we decide to learn how to experience our lives from integration of our mental and emotional worlds with our hearts, our essence.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the only one we can actually manifest in our relationships with everything and everyone around us, the more transparent, coherent, respectful and whole we are to ourselves, the more we manifest that in our relationships (click here to read about reflections on relationships). Thats why our integrated relationship, with our lives, with the environment and with people, has clear purposes, to reveal in the present the consequences of what we’ve thought, felt and expressed, so we can transform the way we relate from inside out (click here to read about purposes in our relationships) .

Now that we understand that we can only manifest outer relationships from our current state within, we can reflect on these aspects that effectively take us to relate ourselves to everything around us in a more conscious way:

  1. TRANSPARENCY: this aspect starts with self-knowledge, because, when we discover our motives behind every decision, we can analize and align them to the truth of authenticity in unity within our heart. By being honest to ourselves we begin to feel our self-confidence increasing, what leads us to the certainty of expressing our talents, our desire of contributing, our innate universal connection, and, consequently, to manifest a reality in which the expression of truth is always our priority.

  2. COHERENCE: as we know ourselves, we perceive that we need to allow our perceptive system to expand, in order to align our expression to the personal wisdom of who we truly are, and integrate it to the context. Our thoughts need to be more focused on construction from contribution (click here to read about contributing), our emotions need to be felt and integrated to express integrity from our feelings (click here to read about sublimation of emotions) and our expression needs to be more integral, considering the context and our real ability of contributing.

  3. ACCEPTANCE: when we accept ourselves from our essence, and understand that we are all in a process of constant experimentation of our own reality, we get to accept and understand everything and everyone around us. Our power of decision is focused on ourselves, we are responsible for what we construct and for the impact it has in society, we must be the example of the integrity and the peace we want from the world (click here to read about constructing peace).

  4. INTEGRITY: when we connect to reality as integral beings, whole, that have all what is necessary to contribute from our essence, we are ready to build in the whole as a cell, by assuming the role we are meant to, from a purpose that integrates all the areas of our lives, and that manifests relationships focused on its construction. In a state of integrity we are able to love from freedom of being who we are and embrace everything and everyone for who they are, we understand that every relationship is part of the construction and according to its purpose in our lives we must decide and act (click here to read about constructive relationships).

From the truth of our heart we construct relationships that connect ourselves to each other and strengthen the structure to build up, since we accept differences as an integral part of the whole, and we perceive from the essence of the moment. We perceive life as a moment, we live it as if only the present exists with the purpose of leaving an integral legacy that serves as an example to evolve in unity, from love, from integration.

Love,
Ángel

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Manifesting the Truth of Our Heart

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As we grow up, and know ourselves deeply through our decisions and experiences, we get to identify what keeps us flowing in our peace and whatever keeps us away from it, either positive or negative. This process of self-knowledge and self-analysis is essential for us to learn how to identify the truth from our heart and the “truth” that comes from our belief system (that has built our emotional world in an unconscious way, that is often very desaligned from our heart, mainly because of the belief of separation).

As well as we are able to connect to what our mind believes that is our reality (belonging to extremes in order to segregate due to the desire of competing and comparing), we’re able to connect to the integral wisdom of our heart, the one that leads ourselves to act from our peace in order to learn, in an objective way, about our own experience from our personal perception, from integrity, aligned to the context, putting our mind to its service to construct from authenticity in unity, and contribute effectively.

For manifesting the truth of our heart, it is essential that we consciously connect to our perceptive system, here, I share these simple actions that we can integrate to understand that our life depends less on personal opinions (from us or others) when we live it from transprency, respect, integrity and coherence:

  1. FLOWING WITH CONSCIOUSNESS: to flow with consciousness it is necessary that we install the belief of acting from integrity, coherence, respect and transparency, since, this way, we tune our mind into the vibratory frequency of our heart. Having this belief that potentiate our heart from the mind, we need to perceive the signs we receive through our perceptive system and flow where we truly feel peace (if we have too many options, we need to increase our tuning with our heart, there is an exercise for doing this that has been very useful to me [click here to learn the exercise of integrating emotions], since it integrates the vibrations from emotions and thoughts, that creates distraction in any extreme, so we can go back to our center).

  2. ADJUSTING OUR COHERENCE: our heart knows that everything external is just a reflection of the internal, that shows us if it’s necessary to make any adjustment or if we’re on the appropriate path for ourselves, due to it, in order to potentiate our heart’s wisdom through our mind, we must install the belief that everything we judge, or have an opinion about, positively or negatively, is a reflection of us that allows ourselves to learn and adjust our vibration from our personal experience. For example, we want peace and we blame everything around us because that peace we want is not manifesting itself, yet we’re still full of inner conflicts, therefore, the absence of external conflicts can only be manifested when we have found our inner peace, that is accepting and integrating everything we really are to the social context we’re in, as building agents part of the whole. Here, we can integrate the exercise of integrating emotions in order to understand from our peace what we need to adjust when it comes to our thoughts, feelings and expression (click here to read about our coherence).

  3. ALIGNING OUR EXPRESSION: in order to align our expression to the vibratory frequency of our heart, it is necessary to exercise different ways of expressing ourselves, listening with full presence, communicating just what we have the certainty that contributes to the external construction of our inner peace, in the present moment, focusing our attention on truly knowing ourselves and doing what’s most appropriate from our personal talents and abilities. Installing the belief that our thoughts, feelings and words are powerful, allows us to perceive the importance of aligning them to a purpose that permeates all the areas of our lives in order to potentiate the desire of our heart with all the intention.

  4. EXERCISING AUTHENTICITY IN UNITY: this would be the most important belief of all, since it strengthens our discernment in order to find the appropriate measure of everything in our lives, it prepares our mind to perceive the connection between everyone and everything, to build respect from our habits, to remember that all our decisions have an impact on the system, on the whole. By expressing who we truly are, the existing barriers start falling down, and just what’s truly essential for our lives remains and reveals its perfect purpose in our existence (click here to read about connection to neutrality).

The truth of our heart is usually expressed in a certain degree of unconsciousness mixed with our mental models and emotions, it’s up to us to potentiate it from our mind and be conscious of acting by encouraging integration in all the areas of our lives, since, this way, we expand this model to society through our example, and create more connective ways of relating to each other as social individuals.

Love,
Ángel

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