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Soul Mates

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Due to the impact the idea that a soul mate exists might have, it is important that we broaden our perception on this matter, so we can understand that it is essential to really know who we are, and what we want, before making any commitment to another person. When we understand that we are complete, and that we perceive fragments of ourselves in others, we understand that, at the appropriate moment, we can decide to commit to a person who chooses to commit to us with the conviction that we can empower each other while we construct together, since we work for the same purpose from our own authenticity.

Depending on the stage of life we’re in, conscious or not of our mental, emotional and sentimental worlds, we have different soul mates, people who vibrate, think and act like us, and who we decide to keep in our life because of many reasons we need to, constantly, assess, which doesn’t mean that we will remain in that state for the rest of our lives. We, who want to manifest a relationship that potentiate our peace, can consider these aspects (click here to read about manifesting the relationship we desire):

  1. Strengthening our peace: when we make decisions based on what increases our peace we get to learn from reflection, what strengthen our natural state and connects us to the appropriate people for aligning ourselves to our hearts.

  2. Expressing our authenticity: knowing who we are from our essence, and expressing it, is essential, since, that is the only way we can build relationships with a solid and transparent foundation.

  3. Understanding that every relationship is unique: we are all different, therefore, all relationships are different. When we get to perceive it, we have the chance to start every relationship from zero and to construct together what brings us peace as a couple.

When we decide to transform ourselves into our most complete version, we perceive the importance of our talent integrated to the context to be permeated by transparency (click here to read about exercising transparency), coherence (click here to read about coherence), respect (click here to read about respect) and integrity, since, from these aspects, we construct solid foundation to potentiate each other. We can decide to stop looking for a soul mate that completes us and begin to become the soul mate that empowers us, to recognize ourselves in the other, and to construct the family of integrity that we want, from consciousness.

Love,
Ángel

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Constructive Relationships: 7 questions to assess the level of constructivity of relationships

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It is very important to work on our self-relationship (click here to read the text about transforming our self relationship), in order to understand who we really are (click here to read the text about self-knowledge)  and be ready to relate to the world in a more assertive way. This includes to detach from destructive relationships, even if it is because of our or other’s intentions, and building new constructive relationships for our lives.

Today we’re talking, specifically, about the transformation of, and/or detach from, relationships that make us feel less than we are, or that just have turned into a waste of time, for we get use to it and we haven’t found our way out of there, whether because of one or many reasons (click here to read the text about empowering habits)..

Many types of beliefs have taken us to live relationships in our lives that, when we change our beliefs, we have seen them as something we don’t really want to live. As we grow up we pass certain situations that can lead us to know what we really don’t want or actually want, that’s why it is so important to learn to direct our lives by the relationship constructive path. This empower us.

There are 7 questions to assess the level of constructivity of relationships we live. Using the for every relationship (sentimental, family, friendship), in an honest way, we are able to understand if us, or other people, are having destructive behaviors, if they can really be transformed, or if the best thing to do is getting out of that relationship.

  1. In the relationship the both of us support each other?
  2. Is there respect between the both of us for each other’s growing and development?
  3. Is there freedom for being who we really are?
  4. Is there honesty and transparency?
  5. Is there dialog without manipulation?
  6. Is there trust, fidelity and loyalty?
  7. The both of us contribute to the construction and strengthening of the relationship?

If after asking ourselves these 7 questions most of the answers were “NO” we are living some kind of destructive relationship. It is important to analize is it’s really possible the transformation through the dialog, but if we perceive that there’s no possibility of changing what is destructing the relationship it is time to ask ourselves about the real reasons why we are still experiencing that. If some of those reasons is fear (of loneliness, of not finfing another person, of losing something) we must take the responsability of detaching from that and, in the most respectful way possible, making clear what we really want (click here to read the text about setting boundaries)..

When we live in an unconsciouss destructive way, we tend to see the external as a threat, but we can transform our own selves and find that heart path that leads us to be more respectful, free, transparent, faithful, loyal and constructive to us and to people (click here to read the text about connecting ourselves to our hearts). So, if today we are in a relationship like that, we must give us the chance of getting out of it and let ourselves, or the other person, follow our own consciousness path. Let’s do this for ours and others, it may be that the relationship that finish now start over again with a more consciouss point of view in order to build the relationship up .

Let’s be independent, dependency always causes undesireble emotional situations (click here to read the text about emotions and feelings).

Love,
Ángel

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